My ex and I recently got back together after trying to be apart for a while. We had some disagreements during the getting-back-together phase and one evening I decided to go out drinking with friends. Long story short, I had way too much to drink and all I remember is waking up the next morning. Friends told me about the hilarious things I did that I have no memory of. A very dear friend of mine told me that I kissed him and he was too drunk to stop me. It must have lasted a couple of minutes at most. I have absolutely no recollection of this but I have no reason to doubt my friend’s story either. Apart from vowing to never binge drink again, I’m in a bind: Should I tell my boyfriend or should I pretend it never happened?

Oh, sweetie, tell him about the kiss or don’t tell him. It doesn’t matter. He’s going to find out either way because — Can I be honest? — you’re a bad liar…